The quiet mouse

I think people like my husband figure out what is awkward about you and try and make it seem worse so you feel worse about yourself when they exploit it.

There’s no consent and no permission for things that they do to you. They try to take away your dignity and just let you suffer in the feeling of dirt and Grime.

I do not like being touched sometimes. Especially when it’s personal intimate areas. Those areas need permission. It doesn’t matter if your married or not you still need consent.

I’m going to be brutally honest and adult here. I don’t like having my boobs touched without permission. I’ve had hands go down my shirt or up it without me wanting that kind of touch. I’ve been at family gatherings and had a hand sneakily go after my boobs with people in the room. I feel it’s disrespectful.

It might not be to others but to me it is.

I enjoy sleeping alone right now. I don’t enjoy sleeping with my husband. I hate having a hand on my boobs while he’s in bed. If I move it I get grumbled at.

Don’t start the whole one flesh argument. That is for major intimate times. I hate it when it’s used to say that your spouse is your property and therefore their books and vagina are yours too do as they want.

Seriously?

I have had other adult things happen that I might discuss someday. Those things are things that have seriously crossed boundaries and never got apologies for.

It doesn’t matter if you are married or not your significant other still deserves your respect and needs to be treated with dignity and love.